On January 1st, I woke up early and suddenly realized, "I am going to become a mother in a few months!" I turned that initial panic into productivity and quickly signed up for weekly pottery classes and knitting lessons. I took Pre-natal yoga on the weekends and I signed us both up for Parenting classes at our local hospital. I became serious about finding a church and dragged Nick all over Chicago in search of one. I learned how to best use our crock pot and I began trying a million different types of recipes. I continued to meet weekly with Emira, a very nice lady from Bosnia whom I tutor in English, and we began seeing some of the city together, including some thrift stores and eating at a Bosnian restaurant. I read three baby books, two regular books, and I even started to highlight stories in "Parents" magazine that I think I might need in a few years. I was/am trying to cram as much as possible as I could into just a few months.
Meanwhile, Nick did not see the point of frantically trying to make use of his time before the baby comes. He was content with watching "American Idol" when it came on, going for leisurely strolls, and
definately didn't stress out about such things as baby furnishings. That is, until this past month. Suddenly Nick exclaimed one Sunday morning after noticing my enlarging belly, "we're gonna be parents!" He researched a little and then signed us both up for guitar lessons and signed himself up for a flying lesson. He researched and bought a bike and began exercising more than usual. Then we really did something noteworthy--we planned the baby's room and Nick hired a painter! Nick also put together a changing table and I had to fill up a hefty cinch sack's worth of clothes to make room for it all.
We are now both in the "ohmygoodnesswearegoingtobeparents" mindframe but still enjoying our time together before she arrives. I will admit that we do worry/fret a little bit about the future but we are certain everything will be fine.
Earlier this year, Nick signed us up for The West Point Society of Chicago's Annual Founder's Day Dinner. It was held last weekend at a suburban posh country club. Luckily we had a few friends come, too, and we spent the night eating good food and enjoying the company. A very unexpected highlight was meeting the newly appointed Secretary of Veteran's Affairs, General (Ret.) Eric Shinseki and his wife, Patricia. They spoke to us for a few minutes about the Army and also babies! It was really an incredible discussion to have with such an influential and decorated man.
On Sunday night Nick also had a special treat for us. He bought tickets to see "A Bronx Tale" downtown at the Oriental Theatre. The whole show was done by one man-Academy Award nominated actor Chazz Palminteri, who also starred in the movie with the same name. Since this was Nick's first time at a broadway play I was a little nervous if he would like it or not, mostly because I'd like to go again sometime! But I was nervous for nothing--we both ended up really enjoying the entire performance.
Now we are going to take it easy for the next seven weeks. The only special events we will be attending are my baby shower up in Wisconsin on the 28th and we are going to travel out of town during Easter weekend. Nick is finding us a place to visit that also has a grand church. We are busily preparing for our little one's arrival and almost have her new room finished.
We hope that everyone else is enjoying the nice weather. I am not sure what it is like in other parts of the country, but it is finally warming up here. Thanks to Aunt Suzanne and Mom S for the special treats they sent our way this past week. We loved everything.
Have a great Spring and keep in touch!
Love,
The Salmons
P.S. Just a photo of little Ira for everyone! Isn't he cute?